Speaking with Grace: The Art of Addressing Men

How to use respectful speech in Indian theatre
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“Speech is the mirror of respect.” This idea lies quietly within Bharata’s Natyashastra, waiting for every dancer and actor to rediscover it. Speaking with grace reveals maryādā, the inner decorum of a character. The modes of address (saṃbhodhana-vidhi) form the emotional bridge between performer and audience, between character and context.

We will see how to apply these ancient rules to your performance today. Let’s transform your enactment from speech to rasa.

Natyashastra rules for addressing kings and sages
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Addressing the revered

Great sages and their spouses

When you are speaking or addressing sages, call them “Bhagavan” (holy one). Their wives too share the same reverence.

Stage cue: Maintain a slightly lowered gaze, folded palms, a gentle tone. The voice should carry reverence, not fear.

Gods, spiritual teachers, and ascetics

Use “Bhagavan” again.

When speaking to a rishi, a deva, or a renunciate, let your speech have quiet gravity. The tone should drop slightly, shoulders aligned, breath even. Even a soft “Bhagavan” should sound luminous.


Addressing authority and wisdom

The Brahmin

Use “Ārya” (noble one). It carries dignity. When spoken, let the vowel stretch slightly, as if bowing through your sound.

The king

Address as “Mahārāja” (great king). Use this with both firmness and warmth.

Example in performance:

“Mahārāja, your command is my honour.” Here the hands can move outward in kataka-mukha, symbolising service when speaking.

The teacher

Say “Ācārya” (professor). The tone should be respectful yet intimate. The mentor-śiṣya bhāva should shine through your eyes more than words.

The older men

When speaking to older men, address them as “Tāta” (grand father). Your body softens here and your speech slows down. The energy here is familial, not formal.


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Addressing power with privilege

Brahmins addressing kings

These roles can use the king’s name directly. Bharata allows this liberty, as wisdom outweighs power.

Stage insight: A Brahmin calling the king by name and speaking to him shows moral authority and detachment from hierarchy. The tone is calm, confident, but not arrogant.

Ministers and counsellors

Brahmins here can use “Amātya” or “Saciva” (minister). Others must use “Ārya”. Adjust your posture, stay respectful but not submissive.


Addressing equals

Address equals by their given name or title.

Example: Two princes may call each other “Bhartṛ-dāraka” (young master). Tone here is conversational, easy, and rhythmic. The aim is natural flow, not ornamentation.


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Addressing inferiors and dependents

Employees, artisans, and artists are to be addressed by their role. It can be a carpenter, painter, or servant. Bharata insists that even these must be spoken with propriety.

To those of lesser respect

Use “Śaumya” (pleasing one) or “Bhadra-mukha” (auspicious-faced one).
Add “He” (O) before the name. Tone should be kind but assertive. Avoid contempt as it destroys rasa.


Addressing with affection and respect

A respected person

Call him “Bhāva” (honoured sir). For slightly less respected, say “Mārṣa” (comrade).

Example:

“Bhāva, your advice brings peace.”
The difference is in your breath. Bhāva has softness, Mārṣa a touch of camaraderie.

Equal companions

Use “Vayasya” (friend or brother). This expresses equality and intimacy.


Addressing the spiritual and royal

Ascetics and serene souls

Say “Sādho” (blessed one). Here keep your body still and your voice mellow. This word itself is meditative.

Crown prince

Use “Svāmin” (sire).

Other princes

Address as “Bhartṛ-dāraka” (young master). Your energy here should mix obedience with admiration.


Addressing family and disciples

Sons and disciples

Call them “Vatsa” (child), “Putraka” (dear son), or by name or clan.
A teacher may also say “Tāta”. Use the affectionate tone, slow, and rounded.

Example:

“Vatsa, hold your mind steady.”


Addressing women’s relationships

A wife to her husband

Say “Ārya-putra” (son of a noble one). This is the voice of love and respect joined. When older or married long, “Ārya” suffices. If the husband is a king, “Mahārāja” fits the context.

Addressing brothers

Elder brother is “Ārya”. Younger brother is addressed as “Vatsa” or like a son.


Addressing kings and by kings

Subjects address the king as “Deva” (lord). Servants of overlords say “Bhaṭṭa” (sire). Sages call the king as “Rājan” or by patronymic. A Jester can use “Vayasya” or “Rājan” with a playful tone. The Queen and her maids are “Bhavati” (lady). When the king speaks to the Jester, he says his name or “Vayasya”.

Each variation reveals the tone, devotion, equality, or jest. All these are integral to abhinaya.


Stage applications and modern practice

These modes guide vocal inflection, emotional hierarchy, and physical gesture.

For example:

  • When saying “Mahārāja,” lift the chin slightly and sustain the vowel.
  • When saying “Tāta,” let your shoulders soften.
  • Saying “Bhagavan,” lower your eyes briefly.
  • When saying “Vayasya,” smile naturally. It’s a social sound.

Frequently Asked Questions

1. What are the modes of address in the Natyashastra?

They are the rules guiding how characters address others based on social status to express respect on stage.

2. Why are these modes important for dancers and actors?

They bring authenticity and emotional clarity to the performance, helping the audience instantly understand relationships between characters.

3. How should a performer address a sage or god on stage?

Use “Bhagavan” with reverence, a calm tone, and composed body language. Respect must flow through both word and gesture.

4. What does “Ārya-putra” mean in performance?

It means “son of a noble one.” Traditionally used by women to address their husbands with affection and respect.

5. Can these ancient address forms be used in modern theatre?

Yes. They can be adapted into contemporary performances to retain authenticity while respecting cultural and emotional nuances.


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Final thoughts

Speech in performance is a sculpted expression. Sage Bharata knew that respect, tone, and word choice shape the emotional truth of a scene. When a dancer says “Ārya” or “Vatsa,” it’s pure relationship speaking.

So next time you step on stage, remember: every address is a bow, every word a gesture. Speak with the grace of Natya.


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